SO, recently I've been wondering about that thin line. Yes, you'll know which one I'm talking about. We've all been there.
Here's how the story goes- Girl meets a super fun boy. Boy and girl hang out- a little bit in the beginning and A LOT, very soon after the beginning. If they're not hanging out, they're texting 24/7, emailing each other funny things they found online, exploring new places in town together, meeting each other's friends etc. Mad bonding ensues with crazed swapping of stories. And oh, the LAUGHS. Many, many laughs.
In all of this,
Girl is wondering if this has the potential to go somewhere (and being over-analytic as the female species is, she's putting things into a pros and cons tables, for 'perspective' you know?).
Boy has two thought bubbles- 1. Do I like her? 2. Should we bonk?
There are two possible outcomes.
a) Girl and boy decide they enjoy each other's company a lot and that they would like to take it to the next level and get into a relationship
b) Girl and boy decide they enjoy each other's company a lot, so they don't want to risk turning it into a relationship
Oh, and a third outcome- Girl/boy blurts out the truth about their feelings for the other and the other respectfully (with many awkward pauses) backs out and the whole situation is a muck.
So, you see there is that thin line between intersex bestfriend-ship. Because all that separates this platonic relationship from a full fledged relationship is a few whispers, a couple of confessions and kiss or two (that, or a drunken night with lots of 'mistake' sex).
Certainly is food for thought, no?